Divorce Verbal Emotional Abuse
I know the abuse is not my fault, how to deal with the guilt?
GOing through a divorce, no prior physical abuse, lots of verbal and emotional though. Divorce initiated by me for these reasons. when husband came by to see the kids last week, we argued and he hit me. we have many mutual friends, and now that people know and some are pretty pissed at him, he is now throwing the guilt at me and saying I could cost him his job, his friends, etc. ( i only told one friend, you know how people talk, and they wouldve found out whether i told them or not.... the swollen face said enough) I know its not my fault, but the guilt is ovrwhelming, and I am trying to handle my daily life with work, kids, etc as well. How do I stop feeling guilty and responsible....HELP!
There is no reason for you to feel guilty. Was he worried about hitting you ? was he worried about giving you a swollen face ? He should loose his friends and his job. Truth is the longer he goes thinking he's not really doing anything wrong the worse he will get. If more and more people come down on him for his actions and more and more people know about it the better it will be for everyone involved. Now he has to answer to more people than just you. That might change his actions.
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