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THE SWEET CHILLI

THE SWEET CHILLI

A Mulla Nasrudin Story

By 

VIKRAM KARVE

I look around me and wonder why so many people continue to cling on endlessly to suffocating unharmonious relationships, unrewarding careers, harmful activities, unhealthy habits and all sorts of infructuous, incompatible, negative, deteriorating, dissipating and dead-end situations in life. Why are we so reluctant to just let go of all these detrimental things and move on in life...?

Maybe the answers lies in this apocryphal story I heard long back, whose inner meaning has had a profound positive effect in formulating my philosophy of life:

 

 

 

On his first visit to India, a rich merchant saw a man selling a small green fruit which he had never seen before. It looked fresh and juicy and the merchant was tempted and curious so he asked the vendor, "What is this...?" 

"Hirvee Mirchi. Chillies, fresh green chillies," said the hawker.

The merchant held out a gold coin and the vendor was so overjoyed that he gave the merchant the full basket of chillies.

The merchant sat down under a tree and stared to munch the chillies.

Within a few seconds his tongue was on fire, his mouth burning and tears streamed down his cheeks.

But despite this discomfort, the merchant went on eating the chillies, chewing them one by one, scrutinizing each chilli carefully before he put the piquant hot green chilli into his burning mouth.

Seeing his condition, a passerby remarked, "What's wrong with you...? Why don't you stop eating those spicy hot chillies... ? "

"Maybe there is one that is sweet," the merchant answered, "I keep waiting for the sweet one."

And the merchant continued eating the chillies.

On his way back, the passerby noticed that the merchant's condition had become miserable, his face red with agony and copious tears pouring out of his burning eyes.

But the merchant kept on eating the chillies, in his search for the ‘sweet one'.

"Stop at once, or you will die," the passerby shouted. "There are no sweet chillies... Haven't you realized that...? Look at the basket – it is almost empty. And have you found even one sweet chilli yet...? "

"I cannot stop until I eat all the chillies. I have to finish the whole basketful," the merchant croaked in agony, "I have paid for the full basket and I will make sure I get my full money's worth – my full paisa vasool - now I am not eating chillies, I am eating my money..."

 

Dear Reader:

Read this story once more, reflect on it, and apply it to your life.

Don't we cling on to ungratifying things and uncongenial people even when our inner voice tells us to let go and move on in life.

We know some things are not good for us and we should let go of these things, but we continue to persist, at first hoping to find ‘sweet one' and even when we discover that there is no ‘sweet chilli', we still continue to shackle ourselves to painful people, abusive relationships, harmful habits, negative careers and detrimental things just to ‘get our money's worth' when we should let go, move on and liberate ourselves and be happy.

Please comment and let me know your views.

VIKRAM KARVE

Copyright © Vikram Karve 2010

Vikram Karve has asserted his right under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 to be identified as the author of this work.

About the Author

VIKRAM KARVE educated at IIT Delhi, ITBHU and The Lawrence School Lovedale, is an Electronics and Communications Engineer by profession, a Human Resource and Training Manager by occupation, a Teacher by vocation, a Creative Writer by inclination and a Foodie by passion. An avid blogger, he has written a number of fiction short stories and creative non-fiction articles in magazines and journals for many years before the advent of blogging. His delicious foodie blogs have been compiled in a book "Appetite for a Stroll". Vikram lives in Pune with his family and pet Doberman girl Sherry, with whom he takes long walks thinking creative thoughts. Vikram Karve Creative Writing Blog - http://vikramkarve.sulekha.com Email: vikramkarve@sify.com

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