10 Divorce Signs

Posted in January 18, 2009 ¬ 1:54 pmh.MaryNo Comments »

10 divorce signs

Is Your Spouse Cheating on You? 10 Telltale Signs of the Cheating Spouse!

When a person is unable to let-go of their feelings of attraction for someone who is not their partner or spouse, they will risk everything – even their marriage – to give way to those feelings and sadly, affairs are one of the highest causes for divorce. Studies have shown that 75% of all relationships will experience infidelity. Although there are no step-by-step guides to guarantee that this does not happen to you, here are some valuable points and signs that your partner is having an affair:

1. The first and most obvious sign, in this day and age, is suspicious cell phone behavior. Does he always take his phone with him, even to the bathroom, goes into another room to take certain calls, always deletes his messages?

2. Sneaky behavior on the computer. Always clears the screen when you come into the room, deletes all his incoming and outgoing mails. Spends long periods, at odd times, ‘working' on the computer – could he be in online chat rooms?

3. Recently started working late on a regular basis. What are the reasons for this – a promotion, someone off sick or on leave?

4. When they get home from ‘working late', do they smell of perfume, cigarette smoke or alcohol?

5. Spending more and more time with colleagues from work, even after normal working hours. For example a weekend seminar where your spouse stays away from home.

6. The opposite of the above point, where you only have a ‘week-end' partner. They live away from home during the week or for long periods – commuter jobs.

7. Your partner is not interested in meeting your sexual or emotional needs – you seem to be doing all the ‘running' in your relationship.

8. Is their life ‘over-scheduled' thereby leaving very little leisure time to spend together?

9. Is your partner taking more interest in their appearance – weight, clothing, personal grooming, suddenly joined a gym?

10. Recently become very irritable and snappy with you and tends to ‘put you down', or belittle you?

If you do suspect that your partner is cheating on you, you need to resist your first urge to confront and accuse them. Although this may seem the most logical thing to do, you most stop yourself, resist this instinct and think carefully and strategically. If you do confront them immediately, what sort of response will you get and what are you going to do about it? Unless you have absolute proof of the affair, their response will always be to deny the facts and then what are you going to do? In the future they will only be more careful to hide their tracks, making it harder for you to find proof.

Now that you know how to spot whether or not your partner is having an affair, it is not necessary to grab your belongings and head for the divorce attorney. Start to fight back – do not let an affair destroy your relationship and all the effort you have put into it. If you truly feel that you want to stay in your marriage, then don't give up without trying everything you can to save it. Divorce is difficult and will leave an enormous gap in your life.

If you are at a stage of absolute confusion and indecision, don't lose heart – there is help available. You do not have to deal with this on your own BUT remember the longer you leave it, the worse it is going to get. If you are desperate for you and your partner to fall in love again, CLICK ON THIS LINK, and sign up for their Free 6 part MINI COURSE, which will help you through this difficult time - you have absolutely nothing to lose except your marriage!

About the Author

I have been involved in the Herbal/Natural healing industry for the past 20 years. I have owned my own manufacturing factory plus retail outlets. I have also been responsible for the formulations of all the products I produced and sold. I am passionate about natural healing and firmly believe we should all "treat the cause and not just the symptoms". During this time I also became very involved in counselling couples with troubled relationships - I found that I could really relate to these people.

In my spare time I am an avid sportsperson having represented my country in swimming and cycling in the veterans catergories.

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